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    Aeryn Walker: Porn Is Not Sex: Response from a Porn Sex Worker

    naughtynerdy:

    My response to an anti-porn post.

    home-of-amazons:

    Every time I make an anti-porn post, I get accused of “shaming people’s sexuality” and/or “shaming sex.” As I have said numerous

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    I’d just like to note:

    • ”Stop claiming that all or most porn actresses enjoy what they do…

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    katiesloane:

ectoskeletal:

deadstacylives:

will always reblog

As long as you’re not dating one..full support.

your “full support” is actually a distinct lack of support. I demand that you withdraw your comment immediately.
You cannot question this. You are not supporting. You are oppressing. It is disturbing to me to think that you are supporting. Please withdraw your comment.
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    fuckyourselffit:

There is a rather unfortunate ‘hobbyist’ culture in Australia, one that is beginning to disgust most working ladies and contradicts the very praises that me sing for our (mostly) respectful clients.   
Reviews are part of any business, I welcome factually based reviews and am happy for the security they provide to my potential customers.    What most gentleman and people outside of the industry fail to notice is that there is different levels of escort reviews; little ‘boys clubs’ where they can discuss personal information about ladies or ‘vip clubs’ where the content varies from degrading to downright personal information that no one should have access to unless the lady offers it.
That’s bad enough, but some fuckheads that participate in gossip websites under the pretense of ‘hate’ for a bunch of ladies, when in reality, it’s a simple reflection of their fucked up obsession with ‘hookers’.    These are the types of guys who are obsessed with sex workers as we real life epitomes of what they resent about women - that they are likely be be attracted to nice, good looking people that can provide us with a stable relationships and that money can buy influence in attraction.   
I envisage that this resentment started when Jenny from year-11 biology politely turned loser-punter X for a date as she was out of his league, and he was a dweeb with no interpersonal skills (about as appealing as an arrowroot biscuit all in all).   These guys are the type of men with deep-rooted self esteem issues, usually triggered by rejection of women and this rejection leads to introversion and lack of confidence that makes pussy outside of paid-pussy pretty much near impossible.   They generally lose their virginity to sex workers, they developed high-inflated misplaced egos based on kindness that we are required to show them, then they become embittered when they fail to understand the client/sex worker relationship boundaries and face more rejection with their unwelcome advances.  Good psych-study material really, type of guys that would appear on nice guys of OK cupid for those reading at home. 
I respect my clients privacy 100% of the time in accordance with the guidelines that are set out on my website.    Once you have completed a booking with me, unless you have hurt me, harassed me or posed a threat to other ladies based on my experiences with me - your name won’t leave my notepad unless someone asks for a reference for you.    If you contact me and the booking never eventuates but you were no hassle and didn’t pose any concern for me, the same obviously applies.
I have zero respect and zero responsibility in protecting the identities and personal details of idiots that wish to discuss information about ladies they have no right to be divulging behind their backs or men that engage in gossip site antics.   
If you want a detailed description of my labia, how much noise I make when I orgasm, how many cigarettes I smoke a day or what my cultural background is - you can open your wallet like most guys or you can stalk me out at various places that you think I might hang out in the city and try your luck at walking up to me and impressing me with your good looks, charisma and sense of humour.    It’s hardly fucking rocket science, if you stalk my Twitter as much as you seem to, you would regularly see references to places I am meeting friends - lets meet and chat! 
You’re too much of a pussy and realistically couldn’t maintain any form of argument with me face to face without the delayed ability of being a keyboard warrior?   Congratulations, take your $59.95 unlimited TPG connection and fuck off out of my business then.  
My business is exactly that - my business.   If you’re not friends with me, booking me as a client or fucking me in my own personal life, details of my life are as much personal concern to you as your expanding waist line and Comic-Con attendance are to me.  
I’ve dealt with it all:  posts about what people believe my real name is, posts about where people believe I live, details about my relationships and a miscarriage I had, derogatory rumours spread about me in attempts to damage my business.  Bullshit really, do you create a website to gossip about your Accountant or Hairdresser in the same way?  Am I really that special and interesting?
I’m a somewhat privileged position that I don’t really give a fuck about what people like them think - I show my face, I don’t acquire fan boys, I don’t rely on review forums to have to make a living.   Some girls aren’t fortunate enough to be in this position and some girls don’t have the experience and personality the prevents them from them being vulnerable to harm and hurt by this type of misogynist behaviour.    
It goes without saying that if you try and fuck with me, I have no qualms in fucking with you back.   I’m sick of sex workers having to put up with bullshit like this, it’s probably one of the most concerning issues in our local industry today.  If you fuck with my friends, associates or girls that cannot stand up for themselves - I will do everything in my power to fuck with you back and will encourage other girls to do so.      I will not allow girls to have their rights and power taken away from them based on their occupation, quite frankly I am sick of girls being subjected to this kind of unfair treatment.   The amount of prosecutable slander that is within the magic gates of these forums is disgusting (I had access for years guy, nice to let you know that now the person that gave me access is dead).
And to the girls that continue to support this culture by advertising on such websites and stroking the egos of these fuckheads - get a grip.   How about you start supporting the rights of other ladies rather than thinking about the bottom fucking dollar and focus on developing a network of amazing clients that have better things to do then bitch about working ladies.  Or more importantly, guys with such wealth and responsibility that they don’t have time to gossip about my testosterone levels and associated hand size.   If they do it to a provider with outstanding consistent reviews and a good work ethic, they are going to do it to you the second you grow tired of their bullshit and stop stroking their inflated ego.   
This is not a personal attack on all of the gentleman that frequent these boards, I have met many lovely clients that are reviewers and many have turned into good long-term regulars.   Please ask yourself though:  is it really about reviewing, or is it about boasting about your exploits and trying to have one up on people that you don’t even know?   
What you support you tolerate, what you tolerate you encourage. 

I’ve only recently started to see some of the truth in this. I’ve got a lot to learn.